Sunday, April 5, 2009

dr faiz khaleed..cuweet2...

Dear bloggie...

Its been a while that I'm not posting anything to the blog...quit buzy..hurm...sOri u guys!!
nyway, last friday my class have a trip to UiTM Lendu to attend a motivation session by our astronaut (eh! btul ke eja ni?)hehe.., Mejar Dr Faiz Khaleed!!!

this event is actually been organized under Pn Zaleha (our Organizational Behavior lecturer) and enterprenuers club, SIFE at Lendu. That's why there is only my class that are from degree course...huhu...actually there is a story that I want to tell to all of you...

at first everything is fine starting from the performance, the talk given...the Q&A session (Lina asked a very difficult question to dr. faiz...GO Lina!!! hehe..) until the photograph sessions comes..

OMG!! everything goes to chaos when the chairman announce "sekarang, tibalah masa untuk sesi fotografi bersama angkasawan negara kita..." after he said that words, all the audience rush to the stage to take the pic of Dr. Faiz... The first opportunity given to the students of one primary school (which I can't remember the name of that school..ehe..sOri=P), but they are so cute...

but then...when the chairman announced that it is students from KBM turns to take the picture, everyone push from the back rushing to get on the stage...oMG!! (fyi...I also been pushed by someone else which I don't know who did that to me!!!) after manage to get on the stage...I have to go to the backline because everyone else have taken their place...near to dr. faiz of course...

so, as for conclusion...I don't have the picture with dr faiz khaleed because everyone is so "excited" to take picture with him...hurm..s0 sad... p0or dr faiz too...he seems very scared and surprised when see all the girls rushing to take picture with him...hehe...nyway, he still maintain the cuteness and the calmness of himself...

Last but not least...here are words that dr. faiz said in his speech which inspires me...ehe..
"You can choose to stay comfortable or you choose to gain new experience everyday...Mejar Dr. Faiz Khaleed"

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

FaMiLy Day HRS!!!

dA cuWeEt MeMOriEs of HRS Family Day...Ngehehe...


BaNnER!!!


eh! anak sapa rajin ni...ehehe...


mamam..Aamm!!



t!rEd...huhu...


Thursday, March 26, 2009

SuPpOrt E.A.R.T.H HOUR toMorROw....


tomorrow on 28 march 2009, is the Earth Hour that most of the nation worldwide are supporting this campaign by turn off their lights starting from 8:30 pm for one hour.
TOgetheR wE hAvE a CanDle LighT DiNnEr tomoRRoW!!!hehehe...
SavE thE wOrlD...LoVe thE wOrLD...mMwAaaH!!!!

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

YaBeDAbEdo00!!!!

Dear blogie...

yesterday is my final presentation day for BEL492...

I sleep late the nite before because I'm so nervous for the next day presentation...

I keep review my preparation outline and my slide show to see if there anything that I left behind... At 2:30 in the morning I stop and I go to sleep... I pray that tomorrow will be a fine and a lucky day for me...

I wake early than usually that morning because I am so nervous!! only God know how am I feeling at that moment because I am the first person who's going to present...last presentation I've done badly and I don't want it happens again...After performed my solat, I'm wearing my KILLER dress...which actually not very killer la...hehehe...


All my friends who going to present are not coming to the the HR class because they are busy preparing for the presentation...omg!!! I'm not totally ready too..but what can I do....

I really don't want make my self stress anymore...I will just present what ever I have prepared...


At noon...I try to do my final review...at last minute, I've got problem with my video which I'm going to show the example on physical harassment. I can't opened it...I feeling so depressed at the moment...I really don't want to think about it anym0re!!! I just tawakal to Allah and pray that every thing will be ok and I hope that I get good marks and better marks from the last presentation....Aamin...


I start my presentation smoothly but at the same time music that I put at my slide show didn't work out!!! I don't want to think about it anymore!!! I'll try to be calm and continue my presentation...but in my heart only God knows how am I feeling...huhu....=(


At last...the moment that I wait for whole my life has come!!! I've completed my presentation!!! yaBEdaBEdo00!!!!

hehehe...I feel released..."LEGANYA"...half of stress in my head are halfly gone forever...!!

I've done my best and I 'll hope that I'll get good2 marks for my final presentation...It is very important for me...InsyaAllah...

Sunday, March 22, 2009

My Presentation Outline...

ToMorroW is My ImpOrtant DAY!!
FINAL BEL PRESENTATION!!!
HuWAa...
NyWay...Below are my preparation outline...


Universiti Teknologi MARA
Kampus Bandaraya Melaka

BEL 492
PRESENTATION SKILL
PREPARATION OUTLINE
“SEXUAL HARASSMENT IN THE
WORKING ENVIRONMENT”


SUBMITTED FOR:
Associate Professor Hj. Sa’aban Hj. Salim
BY:
FARAH UMAINA BT FAJAR KAREEM
(2008280166)
BBHR3A

DUE DATE:
23RD MARCH 2009
TABLE OF CONTENTS

1.0 In Class Activities

2.0 Introduction
2.1 Title
2.2 Reasons for Choosing The Title
2.3 General Purpose
2.4 Specific Purpose
2.5 Central Ideas
2.5.1 Definitions of Sexual Harassment
2.5.2 Forms of Sexual Harassment
2.5.3 Types of Sexual Harassment
2.5.4 Effects of Sexual Harassment
2.5.5 Actions to Be Taken When Being Sexually Harassed


3.0 Body
3.1 Definitions of Sexual Harassment
3.2 Forms of Sexual Harassment
3.3 Types of Sexual Harassment
3.4 Effects of Sexual Harassment
3.5 Actions to Be Taken When Being Sexually Harassed


4.0 Conclusion

References

Evaluation Form


1.0 In Class Activities
1. 06.01.09 Introduction of BEL 492
2. 13.01.09 Lecture : student portfolio and preparation outline
3. 20.01.09 Discussing about the title choosing
4. 27.01.09 Mid-term Break
5. 03.02.09 Discussing about the sources
6. 10.02.09 Lecture :
7. 17.02.09 Lecture : how to prepare the slide for Presentation 1
8. 24.02.09 Presentation 1 (Group 1) (40%)
9. 03.03.09 Presentation 1 (Group 2) (40%)
10. 10.03.09 Lecture : how to prepare the slide for Presentation 2
11. 17.03.09 Lecture :
12. 24.03.09 Presentation 2 (Group 1) (40%)
13. 31.03.09 Presentation 2 (Group 2) (40%)
14. 07.04.09
15. 14.04.09


2.0 Introduction
2.1 Title “Sexual Harassment in the Working Environment”
2.1.1 Reasons of Choosing
To make my audience aware that Sexual Harassment is not a small problem and wants audience to have the knowledge about the true environment of Sexual Harassment at work place.

2.1.2 General Purpose
To inform

2.1.3 Specific Purpose
To inform my audience about the true environment of sexual harassment at work place.

2.1.4 Central Ideas
2.1.4.1 Definitions of Sexual Harassment
2.1.4.2 Forms of Sexual Harassment
2.1.4.3 Types of Sexual Harassment
2.1.4.4 Effects of Sexual Harassment
2.1.4.5 Actions To Be Taken When We Being Sexually Harassed


3.0 Body
3.1 Definitions of Sexual Harassment
• 3.1.1: According to oxford dictionary (6th edition 2000); “sexual harassment is a comment about sex, physical contact, etc. usually happening at work, that a person finds annoying and offensive.”
• 3.1.2: Based on Code of Practice On The Prevention and Eradication of Sexual Harassment In The Workplace-Ministry of Human Resources (1999); “sexual harassment is any unwanted conduct of sexual nature having the effect of verbal, non-verbal, psychological of physical harassment.”
• 3.1.3: Refer to U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) 1980; “Sexual harassment is unwanted and unwelcome behavior, or attention, of a sexual nature that interferes with your life which can affect can affect an individual's work performance, and can create an intimidating, hostile, or offensive environment”


3.2 Forms of Sexual Harassment
· 3.2.1: According to EEOC (1980), there are 3 basic forms of sexual harassment;
· 3.2.1.1:PHYSICAL
3.2.1.1.1: Unsolicited or unwanted touching of any part of clothing or body
3.2.1.1.2: Cornering or blocking
3.2.1.1.3: Stalking or following
· 3.2.1.2: VERBAL
3.2.1.2.1: Profanity- obscene or degrading terms for men or woman and inappropriate use of terms of endearment
3.2.1.2.2: Obscene jokes, cat calls, or cadence with sexual overtones
3.2.1.2.3: Spreading rumors about an individual sex life
3.2.1.2.4: Sexually oriented remarks about a person’s clothing or body
3.2.1.2.5: Persistent requests for dates
· 3.2.1.3: NON–VERBAL
3.2.1.3.1: Gestures made with intentional sexual overtones
3.2.1.3.2: Staring, leering, blowing kisses, licking lips
3.2.1.3.3: Leaving sexually suggestive notes, magazines, cartoons, mugs, or pictures



3.3 Types of Sexual Harassment

• 3.3.1: According to Malaysian Labor Law: Regulation of Employment (1967), there are two types of sexual harassment:
– 3.3.1.1:Sexual coercion
3.3.1.1.1: It is known as Quid Pro Quo sexual harassment in the United States.
3.3.1.1.2: Sexual Coercion is an openly or implicitly offer in keeping a job or getting a promotion is made by a supervisor to an employee in exchange for sexual favors. Such person normally has the power over promotion or raise of the employee.
3.3.1.1.3: In Sexual Coercion, promotion and favorable job benefits will follow if an employee takes the advantage and consented to sex.
– 3.3.1.2: Sexual Annoyance
3.3.1.2.1: It is also known as “hostile environment sexual harassment.”
3.3.1.2.2: Sexual Annoyance is a demeaning and unwelcome sexually related behavior that is offensive, hostile or intimidating to the victim, but has no direct connection to any job benefits.
3.3.1.2.3: Sexual Annoyance includes sexual harassment by an employee against a co-employee. Similarly, sexual harassment by a company's customer against an employee also falls into this category.

3.4 Effects of Sexual Harassment
According to Koss and Boland (1987) there are two types of effects of sexual harassment
• 3.4.1: Common EFFECTS on the VICTIMS
– 3.4.1.1: Decreased work or performance
– 3.4.1.2: Increased absenteeism
– 3.4.1.3: Loss of job or career, loss of income
– 3.4.1.4: Defamation of character and reputation
– 3.4.1.5: Loss of trust in environments similar to where the harassment occurred
– 3.4.1.6: Having to relocate to another city, another job, or another organizations

• 3.4.2: Effects of Sexual Harassment on organizations:
– 3.4.2.1: Decreased productivity and increased team conflict
– 3.4.2.2: Decreased job satisfaction
– 3.4.2.3: Loss of staff and expertise from resignations to avoid harassment or resignations/firings of alleged harassers
– 3.4.2.4: Decreased productivity and/or increased absenteeism by staff
– 3.4.2.5: If the problem is ignored, a company's or organization's image can suffer
– 3.4.2.6: Legal costs if the problem is ignored and complainants take the issue to court.



3.5 Actions should be taken when we being sexually harassed
3.5.1: According to the Malaysian Labour Law: Regulation of Employment (1967) there is only one law in existence that comes close to dealing with the issue of sexual harassment in Malaysia - Penal Code, section 509.
The Penal Code, section 509 provides that:"Whoever, intending to insult the modesty of any women, utters any words, makes any sound or gesture or exhibit any object, intending that such word or sound shall be heard, or such gesture or object shall be seen by such woman, shall be punished with imprisonment for a term which may extend to 5 years or with fine, or with both".
In the meantime, these are the actions that have been guided by the Ministry of Human Resource that you need to take if you have been sexually harassed:
– 3.5.1.1: Immediately object the behavior and make clear to the harasser that you don't like what he is doing.
– 3.5.1.2: To avoid any miscommunication, make sure you be clear and direct. Don't apologize or smile.
– 3.5.1.3: Keep written record of each incident.
– 3.5.1.4: Tell someone immediately after it happens.
– 3.5.1.5: Make a formal complaint.



4.0 Conclusion
4.1 To conclude my presentation, I would like to say that sexual harassment is not a small problem that we can ignore. It can happen to anyone of us, women or even man. They harasser might be our boss, our manager, supervisor or may be our own colleagues and the person who have been sexually harassed might experience a whole life-time trauma which might contribute to self suicide if they experienced an extremely stress.
4.2 After we know the exact nature of sexual harassment happen at work place, we should together take actions to overcome this problem before it becoming more serious and becomes culture in the working environment nowadays.
4.3 Prevention is the best tool to eliminate sexual harassment in the workplace. Employers should clearly communicate to employees that sexual harassment will not be tolerated.


References
http://www.eeoc.gov-sh/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/sexualharassment
http://www.jobsdb.com-law/
http://www.mohr.gov.my/
http://www.sexualharassmentsupport.com/
http://www.wccpenang.org/



My blog….
http://www.farahumaina.blogspot.com/


Hope you guys will pray the best for me tomorrow... wish me luck!

Monday, March 16, 2009

"romantic LOVE quotes"


"Let the world stop turning, Let the sun stop burning, Let them tell me love's not worth going through. If it all falls apart, I will know deep in my heart, The only dream that mattered had come true ...In this life I was loved by you."

~ Bette Midler ~

(born December 1, 1945) American singer, actress and comedian


i carry your heart with me

i carry it in my heart and i'm never without it

anywhere i go, you go, my dear...

and whatever is done, by only me, is your doing, my darling...

i fear no fear for you are my fate, my sweet...

i want no world for beautiful, you are my world my true...

it's you or whatever a moon has always meant,and whatever a sun will always sing is you...

here is the deepest secret nobody knowshere is the root of the root and the bud of the budand the sky of the tree called lifewhich grows higher and higher than the soul can hope or mind can hideand this is the wonder that is keeping the stars apart

i carry your heart,i carry it in my heart...

~This OnE is dEdiCatEd to mY bEl0ved OnE...Ahmad Izzat Alimin~


bLuE...ing!!!

Dear bloggie...
Today is Tuesday but I dunno why I'm feeling so blue...Last nite I have a hug fight with my bf...
I guess maybe I still upset about it...I think let just me and him know about that...

Today...I have to collect the money for the FPP dinner...huhu..is it so hard for me to ask money from them...I know they are having problem but what can we do... as a part of the society, we need to fulfill our responsiblity to accomply with all our society requirements...let it be like a preparation for us to face our job world later... For all my friends, thank you for all your support for the society...Me as the representative for the society really appreciate what all of you have contribute to the society... thank you very much... mucho gracias...

Thursday, March 12, 2009

oFFiciaL sTatEmEnt...This is My BoyFriEnd...

actually...it is hard for me to tell all of you my truly deeply secret...

but now...after he came to Malaysia to receive his new title awarded by YDP Melaka...he said to me that there no need for us to keep this secret anymore...

this is my sweetheart...I guess all of you have known him very well...
so you alls...please accept the reality that we are very serious with each other and we are meant to be together...thank you for support our relationship...I really appreciate it...=)
hahaha...surprise!!!
Just kidding la u'olls...
don't be to serious k...
just want to have fun loling2 only with all of you...
I already have my beloved one...
so dun worry...actually srk is bit too old for me lah!!haiyaa...

LATEST from HRS...

salam...
back from HRS meeting yesterday...I have a few news for all HR students especially part 3....
First of all...I would like to say that this is not my fault at all and none of the committees fault too...
Actually it is hard for me to say...but it was informed to me yesterday that all part 3 students are compulsary to go to the FPP-Fakulti Pengurusan Perniagaan Dinner at Equtorial Hotel on the 1st of April and the fees are RM55 per person...huhu..I know what are you thinking right now...I'm sure many of you do not agree with this and I'm sure many of you don't want to go to the dinner...actually I feel the same too...huhu...actually I argue with HRS YDP,asif on the suggestion about the order that all part 3 must go to this dinner but as you all know...this is an order from our beloved Program Coordinator...En. Ahmad Fadhli Arham...="(
I actually don' t know how to deliver this message to all of you...it is very difficult for me to face this...hope that all of you can understand and hope that all of you can support all the activities that required our participation...thank you very2 much...
wassalam....

I wish....

dear bloggie...
I dunno what am I feeling right now... supposely, right now I'm at home...maybe watching television or sleeping beauty...but I still at the campus waiting for the HRS meeting...wattoDO...huhu...=(
at the OSH class I've made an announcement about the HRS family day being postponed and all my classmates are very happy loling2 to hear the news!!! but me...I dunno why I'm feeling stress at the moment...maybe there is a tons of work waiting for me to make a magic...ohoO...
I hope that I can request a fairygod mother to take care of me and I can make my wish....
I wish that I have another 100 wish more!!! haha...
k la...I want to go for my meeting!! till then...daA...